I was waiting for you to ask that question floder
My wife is a very kind, warm,love, caregiving, kind of person
That being said she has to be to put up the likes of me for 40 plus years
Also keep in mind she raised 4 boys while I was working long hr days on end and very good kids they turned out to be, so when needed she could be stern and hard
Hope this doesn’t confuse you
Good luck